Wash and pat dry the ladies finger. Trim the edges and cut off the crown. With careful inspection, cut the vegetable into 1/2 inch thick roundels.
For 100 gm of veggies, you would end up with approx 3/4 cup of chopped stuff.
Tip : Dont cut too thin, else the veggies would dissolve into a gooey mass.
In a deep bottomed pan, heat oil. Splutter mustard seeds and curry leaves.
Add turmeric and the chopped lady's finger. Saute a bit till the veggies are coated with oil.
Sprinkle salt and cook WITHOUT COVERING for 8- 10 mins. Keep sautéing from time to time.
Meanwhile soak tamarind in warm water (about 1 cup) and extract the pulp.
Alternatively, if you are using readymade tamarind pulp, dissolve in a cup of warm water.
Once the veggies are cooked (but not mushy), remove to a plate .
To the same pan, add the Rasam powder, jaggery and tamarind pulp (with the water).
Cover and cook for another 2 - 3 mins till it thickens. Add the coriander powder , Kashmiri Red chilli powder and let it simmer till the sauce gets a glossy thickness.
Now add the sauteed okra and let it simmer for 2-3 mins on medium flame.
Remove from fire once it reaches a thickish mass (you don't want the gravy drying up too much).
Serve with hot rice, chapati or even curd rice for a yummy meal :)